I found it!!!!

http://oddlabs.com/games.php?id=1380420

This game right here is something I've been passively searching for, for years. It was by far the closest game I have ever played. We both rallied each other and it was like a push and pull pressure game. It lasted for about 20-25mins (20-25mins of just rallied attacking is a damn long time) and we both rebuilt our armouries 3 times and killed each others quarters like 10+ time, but rebuilt and continued attacking evenly... It was the perfect pressure game. I could only wish that I had recorded it :'( (the other guy in there was just watching). Eventually resources started spawning again and his original spot was far better than mine, so towards the end my peons had to run far for iron whereas his was near and was overrun but yeah, there were chiefs and shit too and fuck.. Just the most awesome game ever played :')

those r of course the best games. a lot more fun than jus dominating ur opponent. push and pull is awesome especially in a 1v1 that takes a while cuz both sides r evenly matched. our games used to b like that last year deathy. didnt last 20 min but usually a good 10 mayb 15.

Yeah I remember that they are the best games, although I don't mind thrashing someone every now and again